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Best romantic match for an INFP

MBTI enneagram type of Best romantic match for an INFP Realm:

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INFP - 18 vote(s)
INTJ - 18 vote(s)
ENFP - 17 vote(s)
ENFJ - 12 vote(s)
INFJ - 4 vote(s)
ENTJ - 4 vote(s)
ESTJ - 4 vote(s)
ENTP - 2 vote(s)
ISTP - 1 vote(s)
ESFJ - 1 vote(s)

Last vote: INTJ

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9W1 - 5 vote(s)
7W6 - 5 vote(s)
2W1 - 4 vote(s)
5W6 - 3 vote(s)
2W3 - 2 vote(s)
9W8 - 2 vote(s)
4W5 - 1 vote(s)
5W4 - 1 vote(s)
6W5 - 1 vote(s)

Last vote: 5w6
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  • Posted on: 2017-11-18 22:38:49


    Hmm. Why so many votes for INTJ?

    • Posted on: 2017-12-24 16:55:07



      I've been with an INTJ for 3 years- it's a great match.

  • Posted on: 2017-11-15 23:32:04


    Probably other INFPs

    • Posted on: 2017-11-15 23:32:27


      INTJ could work too

  • Posted on: 2017-11-15 23:25:00


    Not NFP ! Are you all crazy !????? And 9w1 or 2w1. The 2 exact types that I'm not attracted to.

    • Posted on: 2017-11-15 23:28:57


      The evidence is in favor of NF being the best, at least if marriage is a goal.

      Marriage satisfaction - Tieger and Baron-Tieger (2000):
      SJ x SJ 79%
      NF x NF 73%
      SP x NT 73%
      SJ x SP 71%
      NT x NF 65%
      NF x NT 64%
      SP x SJ 63%
      SJ x NT 62%
      SP x SP 59%
      NT x NT 59%
      SJ x NF 58%
      NT x SP 54%
      SP x NF 54%
      NT x SJ 52%
      NF x SP 51%
      NF x SJ 46%

    • Posted on: 2017-11-15 23:32:51


      "In a 1981 study, researcher Ruth Sherman found that differences on the Extraversion/Introversion scale caused the most conflict in long-term relationships."

      Primary source: Sherman, R.G. Typology and problems in intimate relationships. Research in Psychological Type, 4, 4-23.

    • Posted on: 2017-11-16 00:41:25


      First term is male or female?

    • Posted on: 2017-11-16 00:43:34


      Oh no, I understand. Nevermind.

    • Posted on: 2017-11-16 03:46:40

      Dralik Nu

      Seems like NT's are never satisfied in marriages.

    • Posted on: 2017-11-16 03:51:20

      Dralik Nu

      Seems like NT's are never satisfied in marriages.

    • Posted on: 2017-11-16 05:01:56


      I'm surprised NTs have more satisfaction with SPs than NFs.

    • Posted on: 2017-11-16 11:57:12


      I believe this stats show the contrary.

    • Posted on: 2017-11-16 15:25:45


      I guess the first number represents the member of the couple whose satisfaction level is being measured, Zeego.

    • Posted on: 2017-11-16 15:32:04


      Thats right khel, SPs are the most satisfied with NTs but NTs are the most satisfied with NFs but NFs aren't the most satisfied with NTs

  • Posted on: 2017-11-15 19:33:25


    I voted ENTJ. Surprised ENFP is so far up. Makes no sense!

    • Posted on: 2017-11-15 19:41:38


      Now, just envision an INFP and an ENTJ together. That'd just be atrocious.

    • Posted on: 2017-11-15 20:34:51


      Yeah, ENTJs tend to be insensitive

    • Posted on: 2017-11-15 22:15:53


      We don't have any person specific info, but let's just consider the functions.

      I - E, usually good to have a mix of those in a relationship. Not too far away, but not too close. (still can communicate, and build on each other's weaknesses)
      J - P, usually good to have one and the other. if you have two Js going against each other -> more drama, two P's -> hurt feelings

      I'm generalizing her obviously, as this is all MBTI theory.

      Now the functions.

      ENTJ: Te, Ni, Se, Fi
      INFP: Fi, Ne, Si, Te

      Ni - Ne is a great combo. We all now the famous INTJ/ENFP and ENTP/INFJ. Same, but to a lesser extent Se-Si. And both are in the 2nd and 3rd positions (so very balanced)

      Then we both have Te and Fi. But one is other's weakest. This is also attractive to each other as your partner compensates your most weakness. (You are attracted romantically always to what you lack in yourself, that's how people end up with abusive partners.)

      Yeha, I even convinced myself by the end of this post. From an ENTJ point of view, maybe ISFP is more ideal, but INFP is definite second.

      Of course all types might work and it depends on real life.

    • Posted on: 2017-11-15 22:16:49



      IRL video and analysis:

    • Posted on: 2017-11-15 22:43:08


      For me ENTJs are certainly not a good match,they tend to be insensitive and too focused on practical matters and are easily one of the most confident and arrogant types. I don't like "too much extroversion" either. I wouldnt want to be part of an experiment or just one of their many relationships. I'd want to be someone special. The majority of ENTJs would have trouble understanding me and could ptobably not relate to me either. The "opposites attract" cliche doesn't work that well irl.

    • Posted on: 2017-11-15 23:34:51


      “if you have two Js going against each other -> more drama, two P's -> hurt feelings” w8 wtf does P have to do w “hurt feelings”? and drama HAHAHA fuck no, Ps with Js is where the real potential for drama is at. Especially w IxFPs, they tend to fucking hate anything even vaguely “Strong Te”-ish, just ask their opinion on ESTJs (not ENTJs bc they’re generally idolized like they’re another species completely separated from ESTJs) and even 8s (which are usually associated w ExTJs), they’ll always have stories of bad experiences w said types due to significant differences that clash way too much HAHAH but hey guess that doesn’t matter if ur looking for a doormat/some S&M shit, which always seems to be the case to me whenever ppl pair these two types up

  • Posted on: 2017-10-17 18:20:10


    Te doms <3

    • Posted on: 2017-10-17 18:24:38



    • Posted on: 2017-10-17 18:45:59


      Intoxicated is a degenerate

    • Posted on: 2017-10-17 18:50:38



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    • Posted on: 2017-11-15 22:51:47


      An alt

    • Posted on: 2017-11-15 22:52:20



  • Posted on: 2017-09-15 20:16:32


    Fe and Fi tend to conflict so I doubt it would be ENFJ. a lot of INFPs from FB groups and forums tend to call ENFPs their soulmates

  • Posted on: 2017-09-15 16:15:23


    2w1 > 2w3